KING
“The King’s first responsibility is to live according to The Way. If he does, everything in the kingdom will also go according to the Right Order. The kingdom will flourish.”
– from the book: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Moore and Gillette
Who is a King?
Kings are our leaders, managers, captains, directors, and teachers. They lead, guide, and inspire us. The King is the central role (energy) which holds together all others. Masculine traits which confirm and boost the King are leadership, vision, a sense of agency, intentional, honorable, wisdom, holding up under pressure, and self-regulation.
Whether you like it or not, once you and your wife become parents you also become a King and a Queen. The question is only what kind of ‘kingdom’ you create for your children.
Click to listen to what she needs from you as a King
King identity card
I am the leader,
the authority,
the father,
the manager,
the captain,
the person in charge.
To lead,
To create order,
To take care of others.
To lead,
To create order,
To take care of others.
I provide direction and vision.
I set values and rules.
I make a difference in people’s lives.
I rule with love and respect, rather than through threats and force.
I bless others.
Leadership,
integrity,
centeredness,
wisdom,
contribution,
balance,
peace.
Sit upright, look straight, move gracefully and slowly.
Consider your ‘gravitas.’ Having gravitas means that you matter to others. Your words speak volumes because you mean what you say.
People high on gravitas can persuade and influence. They speak with intent, slowly, and quietly, and say little. Others listen.
Negative expressions of the King role
Over-active
Obsessed with control and order
Authoritarian
Condescending
Arrogant
Know-it-all
Talks a lot
Under-active
Abdicates the ‘throne’
Lets his wife lead alone
Lacks leadership or initiative,
Reactive
Chaotic
Dark side
Tyrant
Suspicious
Rules with fear
Paranoid
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