LOVER
Activate the Lover to
CULTIVATE CONNECTION
“Lover is the primal energy pattern of vividness, aliveness and passion. It lives through sex, food, well-being, reproduction, creative adaptation to life‘s hardships, and ultimately a sense of meaning in life. The lover is related and connected to all things around”.
– from the book: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Moore and Gillette
Who is a Lover?
Lover is the archetype for the heart that seeks connection to other human beings. Lovers are the caregivers, artists, visionaries, spiritual teachers, idealists, and of course, your family members and friends. Masculine traits linked to the Lover are desiring a woman, idealism, risk one’s life for strangers, creativity, a sense of humor, playfulness.
The Lover connects the other three masculine roles to life, to people, and to the vision that we are interconnected, and part of something larger than our ego or our tribe. The Lover is about what unites us rather than what separates us.
Lover identity card
I am one with the world and with people.
I am connected,
I am in my body,
I am now.
I am spontaneous.
I feel things,
I am sensual.
To connect with all,
to love and share,
to enjoy being,
and to experience things fully.
What does she need?
What do I need?
What do we both feel?
How can I make her feel good?
I enjoy the moment.
I connect to people.
I empathize.
I worship beauty and indulge my senses.
I dream.
I know no boundaries.
Kindness,
caring,
connectedness,
joy,
hope,
enthusiasm,
gratitude,
and spirituality.
Hold a baby and sense what happens in your body.
Enjoy family and friends, play, laugh, dance, savor the moment, walk in nature, make love, be part of a small group, meditate, pray.
Negative husband expressions of the Lover role
Over-active
Immersed in ideals and fantasies
Restlessly indulges the senses
Gets addicted
Poor boundaries
Childish
Under-active
Emotionally flattened
Distant
Empty
Unmotivated
Depressed
His low energy drags his wife down
Dark side
Narcissist
Addict
Suicidal
Victim mentality
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