Online Workshop

The way of the GOOD HUSBAND

Discover the model that I describe in my book The Good Husband

The  program

Meet weekly online for 1 hour with a small group (up to twelve) of like-minded men who raise young families.

Get tools that will

  • provide you with clarity and support for your role as a husband and father.
  • strengthen your relationship and make you feel closer to your partner.
  • make your family more responsive to you 

What is the workshop about?

This workshop offers you the wisdom AND training based on my book The Good Husband: how to use your masculine strengths to benefit your family

The tools and perspectives you will get can save your marriage! Discover how small changes can go a long way towards making a big difference in your relationship.

When your masculinity is under attack, and you get confused about your role in your family, you need a new roadmap to boost your clarity and competence in what you do. The program sets out to meet this need. 

The model I provide you in my program will show you how to use ancient masculine roles (archetypes) to respond to your wife’s needs and vulnerabilities associated with raising young children.

As a King, you will provide security to your family by creating order and stability.

As a Lover, you will build connection by cultivating physical and emotional closeness.

As a Magician, you will promote clarity and calmness by transforming emotional reactivity.

As a Warrior, you will protect everyone by setting boundaries and by commanding respect.

Wonder how exactly to do that?

This program offers you many tools and practices to illustrate exactly how you can operate and benefit from each of these roles.

Is this intro workshop for you?

This workshop is for you if you raise young children with your partner and are curious to discover the model of The Good Husband.

If you like what you hear, you should join the program.

The Good Husband program

Meet online with a small group (up to ten!) of like-minded men who raise young families. Get tools that will

  • strengthen your relationship and make you feel closer to your partner
  • provide you with clarity and support for your role as a husband and father
  • teach you how to make your family more responsive to you 
  • replace dysfunctional habits that often upset your partner (e.g., avoidance, anger)

Why I created The Good Husband project

As a psychologist and couples therapist over the past 30 years, I have witnessed countless men who struggle with relationship issues that leave them feeling powerless and inadequate. When men feel a loss of power, they tend to get angry or shut down and avoid. This causes their partners to feel even more frustrated and angry, to which men react with further avoidance. As the cycle worsens, men withdraw quietly into their grief and shame. They resign to a sense of helplessness and defeat. Some may develop symptoms of depression and anxiety that they often mask through outward displays of anger. To deal with their hurt, they may escape into alcohol, drugs, pornography, or workaholism. 

These men deserve our support, but instead, their masculinity is regularly tarnished in the media; they are portrayed as victimizers and women as victims. There is a clear gender gap in empathy and advocacy. Family men need encouragement and guidance, not more shaming and blaming. The vast majority of family men want to be at their best for their family! To successfully do this, they need our moral and practical support.

About 40% of marriages end within 10 years, resulting in much suffering for children, parents, and grandparents. Most of these breakups are initiated by women, leaving men often feeling puzzled, shocked, and heartbroken. Sadly, in too many cases the father-child relationship is also harmed.

We need to urgently address this social trend and help men restore their power in their families. This is what I set out to achieve with The Good Husband project. 

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7:00 – 7:30PM  
Discover the main ideas in the model of The Good Husband and how they can serve you and your family.
7:30 – 8PM 

We will demonstrate how to apply the model to any issues that you raise.

Prepare your questions to ask me “what can I do to deal with…”


Tuesday 7 March, 2023,  7:00 – 8:00PM 

a good father with son